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Author Topic: Why do ugly women suffer most in the hands of society when they can't control the way they look?  (Read 27 times)
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« on: April 29, 2011, 03:17:10 PM »

An ugly man can become attractive and make up for his looks with other skills. There's dozens of situations where ugly men land hot women. But you'll almost never see that happen if its the other way around. Why do ugly women specifically get a hard time with society and society's demands? ever since l was little girl l have been mistreated by so many people of all ages l get dirty looks everywhere, l know ugly guys have a hard time but they are judged less harshly because girls are expected to beautiful. Well not every girl can beautiful some dont get good genes from their parents. Beauty and ugliness may be relative, but how relative is relative?
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« Reply #1 on: April 29, 2011, 06:02:54 PM »

It might not be conscious, but it is human nature to judge a person by his/her looks. Not that it is makes it right.

If you have a problem with your looks, start developing some other skills. Get a career, do hobbies, improve yourself as a person overall. Forget what other people think.

Yes I am fat so I do get weird looks sometimes. However that doesn't stop me from going out and being the best person I can be  
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« Reply #2 on: April 30, 2011, 11:17:12 AM »

you have low self esteem, you are beutiful, its because we where all raised up with the picture of what beuty is, and the definition, actually, if you raise a child telling him?her that an ""ugly"" person is beutiful, he?she will believe it,, its the same with racism, get it?, dont worry about what others think, you live your life, and youll see that someday somebody is going to love?like you for who you are!
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« Reply #3 on: April 30, 2011, 03:29:24 PM »

Yeah, unattractive women are treated so much worse. The ones like Oprah Winfrey and Ellen Degeneres live horrible lives.( sarcasm )

Unattractive women aren't treated as sex objects. People actually look at their personalities.              ( serious )
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« Reply #4 on: April 30, 2011, 09:09:19 PM »

It's unfortunate that we live in a society that is so judging of looks, but we do. People might be impressed by looks at first, but I'm almost always more impressed with the character and personality of people not so blessed. They had to work on their personalities. What you can do is quit thinking of yourself as "ugly." It's rare that I see anyone without anything good about them. Do you have nice hair, pretty hands, healthy looking skin? Take care of and emphasize the things that are good about you. Dress for your body--I'm also impressed by people who know how to work with what they have and can put together an outfit well. Women who are very attractive sometimes go to pieces mentally when they get older--I have a friend with this problem. Almost no one's gorgeous after 50 or so.
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« Reply #5 on: April 30, 2011, 10:17:11 PM »

Very degenerating question.  I feel for any woman who was unfortunate enough to come across this question.

Anyways, like somebody said, every human judges whether consciously or subconsciously.
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« Reply #6 on: April 30, 2011, 10:34:57 PM »

In the Stone Age, looks might have been about genetics. Nowadays it's about how much work and money you're willing to put into your appearance. An average person can make themselves look beautiful, and the ugliest person in the world can at least make themselves look kind of cute.

Yeah, men can make ourselves look more attractive by working on our skills, but women can make themselves look more attractive by putting effort into their looks. I don't think this is so uneven.
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« Reply #7 on: April 30, 2011, 10:45:00 PM »

Well, for men, they only have to rely on things like getting a good job. If they were a billionaire and ugly, they would have no trouble finding a hot woman. Due to lower pay wages for women, men are more likely to get paid more, so they have a better chance at landing their hot woman.

The problem with women can be seen when you look at any rap video. Basically women's only way to get enough money (millions/billions) is to sleep with these rich men. But only hot women are picked.

Studies show that ugly women are typically considered to have shittier personalities than attractive ones. So, developing a "personality" doesn't really help when people's first impression of you is that you are dumb and mean.

What is needed is for women to start growing some balls and get some ambition. There ARE male gold-diggers out there. And if you had enough money, you could certainly have your pick of the hottest men. Women need to be more ambitious, and much more discriminating on the looks of men. That way men will breed to have better looks, and women could have their own harems of beautiful men for their every want and need.

At least, this is all the shit I tell myself when people give me dirty looks and treat me like shit. But it is true. Ugly women suffer the most socially/emotionally.
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