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Author Topic: I think my boyfriend's been cheating...?  (Read 92 times)
no_name
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« on: July 04, 2011, 11:29:33 AM »

So before I start I have to tell you a little background, he and I live together. My boyfriend is big into card games and stuff. I don't really understand most the games he and his friends play. Sometimes they bet for money. Anyway there was this tournament thing coming up and he kept leaving to "practice" for it. I would often see another woman dropping him off and when I mention her he pretends I don't know what he's talking about, which I thought was really rude because he never invites her in or anything and I think it's a pretty long drive. So one day the woman comes and picks him up and I decide to follow them, I get on my bike (we can't afford a car okay) and try to keep up. If you've ever tried to follow a car on a bike you know it's no easy feat. I finally caught up with them, they were stopped at the beach. I saw a couple making out but it was a distance so it might not have been them, the woman's car was parked there though. By the time I caught up the couple was gone so I don't know who that was. The woman's car pulled away. I continued to the friend's house (where my boyfriend said he's been practicing for the tournament) and saw her car there. I went around and peeked in windows until I got to one with a good view. I looked in and there were four of them there playing some silly game acting all serious as usual (my boyfriend, the woman, the friend who's house they were at, and his roommate). I saw my boyfriend with his arm around the woman, and later I think I saw her kiss him, but my boyfriend said later, when I asked him about it, that it was just a trick of the light. Anyway, as I watched my boyfriend kept winning, winning and winning every game! Then I realized the deck he was using is one of ours and it has been marked so he can tell what the cards are! I think he is going to cheat on the tournament, should I call him out?
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Jordan
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« Reply #1 on: July 05, 2011, 07:01:09 AM »

Please say you didn't believe him when he said 'It was a trick of the light'. Just leave him, if he can't give you a straight answer and is always being sneaky why should you trust him? Call him out.
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Paige_Harris
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« Reply #2 on: July 05, 2011, 09:08:08 AM »

No.
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Star
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« Reply #3 on: July 05, 2011, 10:56:11 AM »

no you should not but um he sounds like he cheating
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anchi
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« Reply #4 on: July 05, 2011, 11:18:04 AM »

you probably shouldd talkk to him because in my case peoplee tell me thatt he'ss cheatinqq , but let's focus on you..uhm you should it isn't riqhtt if he miqht be . that's just low (about him). -__-
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ILoveMyEasyTech
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« Reply #5 on: July 05, 2011, 11:49:16 AM »

Honestly, I don't really get what you are more upset about... the card game or the fact that he is obviously been cheating on you. I mean.... come on... a trick of the light?? really??? Anyway. Yes. I believe you should definitely call him out. No one deserves to be cheated on. I hope it all works out!
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Jose
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« Reply #6 on: July 05, 2011, 11:58:58 AM »

No, dont do that, no matter what, he's your boyfriend, support him untill you actually KNOW he's been cheating, and if he has been, just crush him into little tiny bits, squeeze his balls and threaten him like if you were going to cut his nuts of and feed it to your cat, dog, hamster, fish, octapus, or whatever gets into your mind. but other than that, i know your worrying but thats what almost every woman does, is worry, worry, worry, and your doin a pretty good job about it:) that means  you love him.
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« Reply #7 on: July 05, 2011, 01:14:13 PM »

Which thing are you planning on calling him out on. The card game cheating or cheating on you? Honestly, cheating in a card game is no biggie something I wouldn't even think about. So just drop that out of you mind for now and focus on the bigger picture. He might be cheating on you, but you can't assume anything. Assuming just makes things worse than they already are. You need more proof. Follow him again...better yet have a friend follow him. He might suspect you catching on.
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« Reply #8 on: July 05, 2011, 01:24:18 PM »

Ok so when I first started reading this I was like ok this is in the wrong section but I decided to keep reading anyway.  I kind of chuckled at you on your bike following and I'm thinking to myself um ok so he's cheating on you then when I read the last part I laughed.  I say don't worry about his cheating, just make sure he spends some of his winnings on you.
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« Reply #9 on: July 05, 2011, 01:32:04 PM »

Trust is a big issue in a relationship if you don't trust him then the relationship will end sooner or later.  If you really believe something is going on then you know what you have to do, kick him to the curb. You don't need drama like that, you will worry all the time and your mind will be thinking that hes cheating all the time so its time to move on. If you can afford to pay the bills at the house then stay there and kick him out before he comes home with a hicky on his neck. My ex boyfriend that i lived with for 6 years started coming home from work later and later....Next thing you know he came home with a hicky on his neck and tryed to hide it. We got in a fight and i told him to get his shit and get out and i stayed in the apt and payed all my bills. So i know what you must be feeling. Once you can't trust him anymore it will never work.
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shyvurboie
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« Reply #10 on: July 05, 2011, 01:34:35 PM »

Comedy gold.  Well played.
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